SWIM
Swimsuit for the pool + hot tub
Toi's Birthday Getaway
Let's Celebrate in the Smokies!
View Our Trip DetailsI'm so grateful to have some of my favorite people joining me in the Smokies as I celebrate this milestone.
Forty feels like more than a birthday. It's a moment to appreciate the experiences, relationships, lessons and people that have helped shape me along the way.
And what better place to celebrate than Pigeon Forge - a place whose very name reminds me of being shaped, strengthened and transformed through life's journey.
This weekend is about celebrating 40, but even more than that, it's about slowing down, laughing, exploring and making unforgettable memories with people I love.
I'm so happy you're here.
Love,
Toi
Five days. One milestone. A whole lot of memories.
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Get settled, unpack and explore our home for the weekend.
Welcome snacks + drinks, music + mountain views, pool + hot tub.
No formal agenda tonight. Settle in and make yourself at home!
For the early risers and fellow latte lovers, we'll start the birthday morning with an optional local coffee run.
The Old Mill Pottery House Café
3341 Old Mill Street
Pigeon Forge, TN 37863
The restaurant does not accept reservations or call-ahead seating, so we'll plan to arrive around 10:00-10:30 AM to join the waitlist.
While we wait, we'll explore the Old Mill District, browse the shops and grab a few birthday photos.
Tans · Browns · Greens · Neutrals · Earth Tones
Optional, of course - but we'd love a coordinated look for our group photos. Toi + Rashad will be wearing tans/browns.
Professional photography at the cabin.
PLEASE BE PHOTO-READY BY 5:00 PM.
Chef Blu
Shrimp & Grit Shooters · Lobster Bisque
Enjoy appetizers, drinks and photos before dinner.
Catered by Chef Blu
Enjoy the cabin!
Followed by breakfast together. We're taking over the kitchen and cooking breakfast together.
Eat, sip, laugh and enjoy a slow morning at the cabin before Adventure Day begins.
UTV Adventure
Tour check-in: The exact off-road park address is provided with the reservation confirmation. Off Road Gatlinburg's office is at 446 East Pkwy, Gatlinburg, TN 37738.
Light breakfast at the cabin or optional local coffee shop.
Shopping + exploring. We'll grab a casual lunch while we're out.
1645 Parkway, Suite 960, Sevierville, TN
For our final dinner together, we're bringing out the black. Think elevated, confident and dinner-ready.
The Appalachian
133 Bruce St
Sevierville, TN 37862
Home departure time: 4:15 PM
Reservation: 5:00 PM
Guests will begin departing at varying times.
Final hugs and safe travels home!
Our catered dinner and mimosa and fruit bar are brought to you by Chef Blu.
Bringing flavor, celebration and a special touch to our Smoky Mountain weekend.
Our home in the Smokies is part of the experience.
Between adventures, make yourself at home - take a swim, relax in the hot tub, hit the game room, catch a movie or simply find a quiet spot and enjoy being together.
For privacy, the exact cabin street address is not displayed on this public page. It will be shared directly with guests.
Family by blood, family by choice, lifelong friends and some of the people who have helped shape my first 40 years.
Meet the crew making the journey to the Smokies with me.

My partner in life, soulmate and biggest cheerleader. Almost 15 years into marriage, I'm still so in love with this man and incredibly grateful for the impact he's had on my life. There's no one I'd rather have beside me as I step into 40.

My sister and forever adventure partner. We couldn't be more different, but somehow those differences are exactly what make us the perfect dynamic duo. Her strengths complement mine, and I'm endlessly grateful for our bond.
My brother-in-law, but more affectionately known as my Bro-Ham. He's never felt like family simply because of marriage - he truly feels like my brother. Whether we're having deep conversations or simply vibing, there's an ease between us that I've always appreciated.
My cousin who has always felt a little more like a sister. She's down-to-earth, hilarious and one of those people you can go without seeing and immediately pick up right where you left off.
Courtney's other half and someone who fits into our family so naturally that it feels like he's always belonged. Thoughtful, attentive and genuinely a good person - I'm grateful he's part of our family.
More than 13 years of friendship, countless memories and both hard and beautiful seasons - Krista is family. She's one of those rare friends I truly can't imagine doing life without, so having her here for 40 means more than she probably knows.
After 13+ years, Tony isn't my friend's husband - he's my brother. He's my favorite great debater, someone I could talk with for hours and the kind of person I know would be there if we ever needed him.
Pastor turned friend turned family. Jomo married Rashad and me almost 15 years ago, and since then he's become an integral part of our lives - someone we love, respect, learn from and genuinely enjoy doing life with.
Pastor turned friend, family and absolute powerhouse. Charmaine has one of the purest hearts I know, and the way she pours into family, friends and church inspires me. Being able to learn from her while also calling her my friend is a privilege.
One of those friendships I didn't know I needed until it found me. Erika is vibrant, loyal, positive and absolutely lights up a room when she enters it. I'm so grateful for how close we've grown.
Don't let the quiet demeanor fool you - Derrick is hilarious. He's also an amazing cook, an even better baker and someone who has genuinely been there for me. I'm grateful that through Erika I gained another wonderful friend in Derrick.
Gina from the Booth! Quiet and reserved at first, but incredibly observant, smart and a wealth of knowledge. An escape room made me realize just how similarly we think, and I love that she's always unapologetically herself.
Friend turned sister - and that's quite literally what we call each other. Our kids have grown up together, she's my foodie partner and she's one of those people I can do absolutely nothing with and still have a great time.
One of those people with an undeniable cool factor. Whether it's her personality, style or simply the energy she carries, people naturally gravitate toward her. Over the years we've grown from friends into family, and I'm so grateful for her.
Another one of our quietly hilarious crew members. He may seem reserved at first, but once Lance gets comfortable and lets his hair down, you get the full experience - and it's always a good time.
Swimsuit for the pool + hot tub
Closed-toe shoes + comfortable clothes for UTVs
Earth-tone / nature-inspired grown & sexy attire
All-black grown & sexy attire
Comfortable shoes for shopping and exploring
Light layers for changing temperatures
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Last Updated: August 18, 2026