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AUGUST 26-30, 2026 · PIGEON FORGE, TENNESSEE

PIGEON FORGE& 40

Toi's Birthday Getaway

Let's Celebrate in the Smokies!

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WELCOME

Welcome to Pigeon Forge & 40

I'm so grateful to have some of my favorite people joining me in the Smokies as I celebrate this milestone.

Forty feels like more than a birthday. It's a moment to appreciate the experiences, relationships, lessons and people that have helped shape me along the way.

And what better place to celebrate than Pigeon Forge - a place whose very name reminds me of being shaped, strengthened and transformed through life's journey.

This weekend is about celebrating 40, but even more than that, it's about slowing down, laughing, exploring and making unforgettable memories with people I love.

I'm so happy you're here.

Love,
Toi

Toi
The birthday girl · 40 in the Smokies
THE WEEKEND

At a Glance

Five days. One milestone. A whole lot of memories.

WEDNESDAYARRIVEWelcome to the Smokies THURSDAYCELEBRATEToi's 40th Birthday FRIDAYADVENTUREUTVs in the Smokies SATURDAYEXPLOREShop + Final Dinner SUNDAYUNTIL NEXT TIMEDeparture Day
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Our Smoky Mountain Weekend

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WEDNESDAYAUGUST 26Welcome to the Smokies+
THROUGHOUT THE DAY

Guest Arrivals

Get settled, unpack and explore our home for the weekend.

PoolHot TubGame Room FloorMovie TheaterCabin Gathering Spaces
EVENING

Relaxed Cabin Vibes

Welcome snacks + drinks, music + mountain views, pool + hot tub.

No formal agenda tonight. Settle in and make yourself at home!

THURSDAYAUGUST 27Toi's 40th - Celebrate+
MORNING

Optional Coffee Run

For the early risers and fellow latte lovers, we'll start the birthday morning with an optional local coffee run.

9:45 AM

Depart Cabin for Birthday Breakfast

The Old Mill Pottery House Café
3341 Old Mill Street
Pigeon Forge, TN 37863

The restaurant does not accept reservations or call-ahead seating, so we'll plan to arrive around 10:00-10:30 AM to join the waitlist.

While we wait, we'll explore the Old Mill District, browse the shops and grab a few birthday photos.

Directions
AFTERNOON

Back to the Cabin

PoolHot TubRelaxGet Ready
BIRTHDAY ATTIRE

EARTH TONES - GROWN & SEXY

Tans · Browns · Greens · Neutrals · Earth Tones

Optional, of course - but we'd love a coordinated look for our group photos. Toi + Rashad will be wearing tans/browns.

5:00-6:00 PM

Birthday Photos

Professional photography at the cabin.

PLEASE BE PHOTO-READY BY 5:00 PM.

5:30 PM

Cocktails + Appetizers

Chef Blu

Shrimp & Grit Shooters · Lobster Bisque

Enjoy appetizers, drinks and photos before dinner.

6:30 PM

Toi's 40th Birthday Dinner

Catered by Chef Blu

Jerk Shrimp PastaJerk ChickenCrab CakesPlantainsRice & PeasCabbageCornbread
AFTER DINNER

Birthday Celebration

MusicCakePoolHot TubGame RoomMovie Theater

Enjoy the cabin!

FRIDAYAUGUST 28Adventure Day+
MORNING

Mimosa + Fruit Bar by Chef Blu

Followed by breakfast together. We're taking over the kitchen and cooking breakfast together.

Eat, sip, laugh and enjoy a slow morning at the cabin before Adventure Day begins.

AFTERNOON

OFF ROAD GATLINBURG

UTV Adventure

RESERVATION3:00 PM
SUGGESTED CABIN DEPARTURE~1:45 PM

Tour check-in: The exact off-road park address is provided with the reservation confirmation. Off Road Gatlinburg's office is at 446 East Pkwy, Gatlinburg, TN 37738.

Official WebsiteOffice Directions
WHAT TO WEAR

Come Ready for Adventure

  • Comfortable clothes
  • Closed-toe shoes
  • Sunglasses
  • Weather-appropriate layers
  • Clothing you won't mind getting dusty or dirty
FRIDAY EVENING

Return to the Cabin + Unwind

PizzaGamesPoolHot TubMovie TheaterCabin Fun
SATURDAYAUGUST 29Shop, Dine & Unwind+
MORNING

Easy Start

Light breakfast at the cabin or optional local coffee shop.

LATE MORNING / AFTERNOON

Tanger Outlets Sevierville

Shopping + exploring. We'll grab a casual lunch while we're out.

1645 Parkway, Suite 960, Sevierville, TN

Tanger WebsiteDirections
AFTERNOON

Return to the Cabin

RelaxPoolGet Ready for Dinner
SATURDAY ATTIRE

ALL BLACK - GROWN & SEXY

For our final dinner together, we're bringing out the black. Think elevated, confident and dinner-ready.

4:15 PM DEPARTURE · 5:00 PM RESERVATION

Final Dinner

The Appalachian
133 Bruce St
Sevierville, TN 37862

Home departure time: 4:15 PM
Reservation: 5:00 PM

Restaurant WebsiteDirections
FINAL NIGHT

One Last Evening Together

PoolHot TubDrinksGamesMovie TheaterLaughs + Memories
SUNDAYAUGUST 30Until Next Time+
MORNING

Light Breakfast at the Cabin

Guests will begin departing at varying times.

10:00 AM

Cabin Checkout

Final hugs and safe travels home!

Chef Blu
OUR CATERING

Meet Chef Blu

Our catered dinner and mimosa and fruit bar are brought to you by Chef Blu.

Bringing flavor, celebration and a special touch to our Smoky Mountain weekend.

OUR HOME IN THE SMOKIES

More Than a Place to Sleep

Our home in the Smokies is part of the experience.

Between adventures, make yourself at home - take a swim, relax in the hot tub, hit the game room, catch a movie or simply find a quiet spot and enjoy being together.

POOLHOT TUBGAME ROOMMOVIE THEATERMOUNTAIN LIVING
WiFi InfoComing soon

For privacy, the exact cabin street address is not displayed on this public page. It will be shared directly with guests.

MEET THE MOUNTAIN CREW

The People Making the Journey

Family by blood, family by choice, lifelong friends and some of the people who have helped shape my first 40 years.

Meet the crew making the journey to the Smokies with me.

RASHAD
RASHADMy partner in life, soulmate and biggest cheerleader.Meet Rashad +

My partner in life, soulmate and biggest cheerleader. Almost 15 years into marriage, I'm still so in love with this man and incredibly grateful for the impact he's had on my life. There's no one I'd rather have beside me as I step into 40.

BRANDI
BRANDIMy sister and forever adventure partner.Meet Brandi +

My sister and forever adventure partner. We couldn't be more different, but somehow those differences are exactly what make us the perfect dynamic duo. Her strengths complement mine, and I'm endlessly grateful for our bond.

KEVIN
KEVINMy brother-in-law, but more affectionately known as my Bro-Ham.Meet Kevin +

My brother-in-law, but more affectionately known as my Bro-Ham. He's never felt like family simply because of marriage - he truly feels like my brother. Whether we're having deep conversations or simply vibing, there's an ease between us that I've always appreciated.

COURTNEY
COURTNEYMy cousin who has always felt a little more like a sister.Meet Courtney +

My cousin who has always felt a little more like a sister. She's down-to-earth, hilarious and one of those people you can go without seeing and immediately pick up right where you left off.

SID
SIDCourtney's other half and a natural fit in our family.Meet Sid +

Courtney's other half and someone who fits into our family so naturally that it feels like he's always belonged. Thoughtful, attentive and genuinely a good person - I'm grateful he's part of our family.

KRISTA
KRISTAMore than 13 years of friendship, memories and life together.Meet Krista +

More than 13 years of friendship, countless memories and both hard and beautiful seasons - Krista is family. She's one of those rare friends I truly can't imagine doing life without, so having her here for 40 means more than she probably knows.

TONY
TONYAfter 13+ years, Tony is my brother.Meet Tony +

After 13+ years, Tony isn't my friend's husband - he's my brother. He's my favorite great debater, someone I could talk with for hours and the kind of person I know would be there if we ever needed him.

JOMO
JOMOPastor turned friend turned family.Meet Jomo +

Pastor turned friend turned family. Jomo married Rashad and me almost 15 years ago, and since then he's become an integral part of our lives - someone we love, respect, learn from and genuinely enjoy doing life with.

CHARMAINE
CHARMAINEPastor turned friend, family and absolute powerhouse.Meet Charmaine +

Pastor turned friend, family and absolute powerhouse. Charmaine has one of the purest hearts I know, and the way she pours into family, friends and church inspires me. Being able to learn from her while also calling her my friend is a privilege.

ERIKA
ERIKAA friendship I didn't know I needed until it found me.Meet Erika +

One of those friendships I didn't know I needed until it found me. Erika is vibrant, loyal, positive and absolutely lights up a room when she enters it. I'm so grateful for how close we've grown.

DERRICK
DERRICKQuietly hilarious, an amazing cook and an even better baker.Meet Derrick +

Don't let the quiet demeanor fool you - Derrick is hilarious. He's also an amazing cook, an even better baker and someone who has genuinely been there for me. I'm grateful that through Erika I gained another wonderful friend in Derrick.

GINA
GINAGina from the Booth! Observant, smart and always herself.Meet Gina +

Gina from the Booth! Quiet and reserved at first, but incredibly observant, smart and a wealth of knowledge. An escape room made me realize just how similarly we think, and I love that she's always unapologetically herself.

IASIA
IASIAFriend turned sister - and that's quite literally what we call each other.Meet Iasia +

Friend turned sister - and that's quite literally what we call each other. Our kids have grown up together, she's my foodie partner and she's one of those people I can do absolutely nothing with and still have a great time.

ALAYSHA
ALAYSHAAn undeniable cool factor and energy people gravitate toward.Meet Alaysha +

One of those people with an undeniable cool factor. Whether it's her personality, style or simply the energy she carries, people naturally gravitate toward her. Over the years we've grown from friends into family, and I'm so grateful for her.

LANCE
LANCEAnother one of our quietly hilarious crew members.Meet Lance +

Another one of our quietly hilarious crew members. He may seem reserved at first, but once Lance gets comfortable and lets his hair down, you get the full experience - and it's always a good time.

WHAT TO PACK

A Few Things You'll Want

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SWIM

Swimsuit for the pool + hot tub

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ADVENTURE

Closed-toe shoes + comfortable clothes for UTVs

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THURSDAY

Earth-tone / nature-inspired grown & sexy attire

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SATURDAY

All-black grown & sexy attire

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EXPLORE

Comfortable shoes for shopping and exploring

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MOUNTAIN WEATHER

Light layers for changing temperatures

TRIP UPDATES

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Last Updated: August 18, 2026

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PIGEON FORGE & 40Toi's Birthday Getaway
August 26-30, 2026
Let's Celebrate in the Smokies!
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